A few weeks ago, my
husband and I started taking a Hypnobabies course. When I was pregnant with
Kennedy, we took classes on the Bradley method of childbirth. I liked the
Bradley method and I think it’s a great class for first time parents, even if
you aren’t planning to go natural. However, I didn’t think we had the
best teacher. Also, my husband and I didn’t
do all of the exercises that we were supposed to do.
I felt the Bradley
Method educated me on how to have a healthy pregnancy and the pros of natural
childbirth but in the end didn’t teach me how to deal with labor pains which
left me feeling a bit helpless. Granted,
I didn’t go into labor naturally. I was medically induced with Pitocin,
which is supposed to be more painful than a natural childbirth, but Pitocin or
not, I didn’t feel that I had the tools to help me deal with the intense pain. When my doula or husband reminded me to relax
it did help, but unfortunately, I was so scared and filled with so many other
emotions that I actually forgot how to relax. At times it was very frustrating
and scary. The only thing that helped was my doula’s massages, my husband’s
kind words and soaking in the bathtub.
This time around, I
looked for a natural childbirth method and class that empowers the
mother. I want to be able to control my reaction to the pain and if
possible control the pain. I also want to control negative thoughts and not
just during active labor, but also during my pregnancy. As I prepare for my VBAC, I have heard and
will likely continue to hear negative stories and some may get into my head. I
also know that I have more to fear during this labor and that’s not just a fear
of the pain, but a fear of all that can go wrong. I need a class that teaches
me how to deal with the intense physical pain and the fear in my head.
After researching
different birthing methods and classes, I think I found what I was looking for
in Hypnobabies. The Hypnobabies ourse teaches medical hypnosis
techniques. These techniques are supposed to help create a relaxing
pregnancy,
a calm yet confident Birth Partner (my husband), and an easier, more
comfortable and sometimes (dare I say it) pain-free birth. I can’t
say just yet, if it’s going to give me a pain free birth, but what I do know is
my pregnancy is much calmer. Every time we hit a speed bump with this pregnancy,
I believe that I can handle things and I have been fortunate enough to overcome
the obstacles we have faced! With Hypnobabies , I feel empowered, calm and in control
of my pregnancy.
For more information
on Hypnobabies: https://www.hypnobabies.com/about-hypnobabies/what-is-hypnobabies
I am totally pro-Hypnobabies. I think having mental tools to deal with pain in your arsenal is extremely important if you really want to go drug free. Trying to just white-knuckle it or use an iron will just doesn't cut it IMO.
ReplyDeleteHaving used the program 2x, I don't feel like anything was pain-(pressure LOL!) free, but the program helped me stay remarkably calm through a lot of hard labor. I was able to call upon the ability to relax and stay calm after all of that constant daily repetition. Yes, I had to often remind myself to drop my shoulders and breathe correctly in the midst of labor, but studying HB gave me a point of reference to do so if that makes sense! I was able to use that "Peace" keyword as a trigger to stop tensing up and relax.
I really loved the affirmations. I often had them playing in the background at work. They seem kind of corny but those positive thoughts got into my head. They have a VBAC Success download/affirmations you can buy too!
I think I will order the VBAC Success affirmations. I love the affirmations CD. I listen to it in my car and now kennedy says babies all day long and calls everyone baby!!!! LOL!
DeleteI loved hypnobabies. but I LOOOOVED Bradley Method. I felt the most important part of getting through my contractions and getting to 8cm w/o drugs was the relaxing/untensing my whole body, esp. my neck/jaw which they seemed to keep repeating over and over in the bradley method books.
ReplyDeleteHypnobabies was wonderful too. I really loved the relaxation, but sometimes the woman's voice would get to me lol. I liked the "come out baby" one lol. Towards the end that's all I'd play haha.
You did both! How did you find the time. I have only heard good things about Bradley so I really think it was my teacher. She talked way to much about her own life.
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