A few weeks ago, my
husband and I started taking a Hypnobabies course. When I was pregnant with
Kennedy, we took classes on the Bradley method of childbirth. I liked the
Bradley method and I think it’s a great class for first time parents, even if
you aren’t planning to go natural. However, I didn’t think we had the
best teacher. Also, my husband and I didn’t
do all of the exercises that we were supposed to do.
This time around, I
looked for a natural childbirth method and class that empowers the
mother. I want to be able to control my reaction to the pain and if
possible control the pain. I also want to control negative thoughts and not
just during active labor, but also during my pregnancy. As I prepare for my VBAC, I have heard and
will likely continue to hear negative stories and some may get into my head. I
also know that I have more to fear during this labor and that’s not just a fear
of the pain, but a fear of all that can go wrong. I need a class that teaches
me how to deal with the intense physical pain and the fear in my head.
After researching
different birthing methods and classes, I think I found what I was looking for
in Hypnobabies. The Hypnobabies ourse teaches medical hypnosis
techniques. These techniques are supposed to help create a relaxing
pregnancy,
a calm yet confident Birth Partner (my husband), and an easier, more
comfortable and sometimes (dare I say it) pain-free birth. I can’t
say just yet, if it’s going to give me a pain free birth, but what I do know is
my pregnancy is much calmer. Every time we hit a speed bump with this pregnancy,
I believe that I can handle things and I have been fortunate enough to overcome
the obstacles we have faced! With Hypnobabies , I feel empowered, calm and in control
of my pregnancy.
For more information
on Hypnobabies: https://www.hypnobabies.com/about-hypnobabies/what-is-hypnobabies
I am totally pro-Hypnobabies. I think having mental tools to deal with pain in your arsenal is extremely important if you really want to go drug free. Trying to just white-knuckle it or use an iron will just doesn't cut it IMO.
ReplyDeleteHaving used the program 2x, I don't feel like anything was pain-(pressure LOL!) free, but the program helped me stay remarkably calm through a lot of hard labor. I was able to call upon the ability to relax and stay calm after all of that constant daily repetition. Yes, I had to often remind myself to drop my shoulders and breathe correctly in the midst of labor, but studying HB gave me a point of reference to do so if that makes sense! I was able to use that "Peace" keyword as a trigger to stop tensing up and relax.
I really loved the affirmations. I often had them playing in the background at work. They seem kind of corny but those positive thoughts got into my head. They have a VBAC Success download/affirmations you can buy too!
I think I will order the VBAC Success affirmations. I love the affirmations CD. I listen to it in my car and now kennedy says babies all day long and calls everyone baby!!!! LOL!
DeleteI loved hypnobabies. but I LOOOOVED Bradley Method. I felt the most important part of getting through my contractions and getting to 8cm w/o drugs was the relaxing/untensing my whole body, esp. my neck/jaw which they seemed to keep repeating over and over in the bradley method books.
ReplyDeleteHypnobabies was wonderful too. I really loved the relaxation, but sometimes the woman's voice would get to me lol. I liked the "come out baby" one lol. Towards the end that's all I'd play haha.
You did both! How did you find the time. I have only heard good things about Bradley so I really think it was my teacher. She talked way to much about her own life.
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